One Size Doesn't Fit All —

Discover How to Work to the Pointwith Every Client

The essential handbook for Enneagram-based coaching & counselling — practical, precise, ready to use.

Move beyond generic approaches to deliver transformational results.

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"Coaching and Counselling to the Point starts where general Enneagram books finish"

Working to the Point

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Your next level as a professional

You know from experience: what works brilliantly with one client falls completely flat with another.

You adapt. You improvise. You hope it lands.

And that's part of what keeps your work engaging— that creative challenge of meeting each client where they are.

But what if you could know—precisely—which approach would move each unique client forward— not to lose the art, but to sharpen it.

Knowing how to move each different type of client from awareness into real change.

This book gives you that type-specific precision.

Everything you need to work deeply and effectively with every type.

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The Enneagram reveals nine distinct patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving—each with its own path to growth.

Here's What Makes This Book Truly Different

The Foundation

The map of Nine

A profound understanding of nine character structures.

You'll learn exactly what stalls growth and what accelerates it for each pattern — and precisely why.

The Roadmap

The Process — EnneaFlow®

A clear, ten-phase transformative process.

A practical framework you can use tomorrow — encoded in the Enneagram symbol. Guide clients to real change.

The Toolkit

Type-specific best-practices

Practices for head, heart, and

body integration

Open the book.

Find your client's pattern. Select the intervention that fits.

Together, they form a complete system for Enneagram-based development work.

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Most Enneagram books describe the nine types. This one shows you how to work with them.

The EnneaFlow® Transformative Method

An Ancient Symbol,

Reclaimed for Modern Transformation.

The Symbol

The Enneagram — an ancient sacred symbol where ‘9’ signifies the highest wisdom and initiation.

Long before it became known as a system of personality types, the Enneagram served as a symbol of inner transformation and conscious evolution.

The Work

The EnneaFlow® Transformative Process — a 25-year journey to reclaim the symbol’s original purpose.

Created by Jeanette van Stijn, EnneaFlow® restores the Enneagram’s original purpose — a living practice of transformation that has inspired professionals worldwide.

"This book breaks new ground. It's the definitive reference for every practitioner— whether you're new to the Enneagram or have used it for years."

— Peter O'Hanrahan

Enneagram Teacher & Body Therapist

Know exactly what to do

— With every type, every time.

No more wondering if you're using the right approach.No more adapting generic techniques and hoping they land.No more "let's try this and see what happens."

This book gives you precision.

Open it. Identify your client's core pattern. Select the intervention that fits. Use it in your next session.

Unlike a training programme, this stays with you — a professional reference you'll return to again and again.

Your clients will feel the difference. So will you.

“It never leaves my desk — I open it so often before a client session.”

— Enneagram Coach & Therapist

Born from 20+ Years of Training Enneagram Coaches

Years ago, at a professional coaching conference, a senior coach said to me:

"Interesting model, the Enneagram, but

you can't really do much with it in practice.

...

That moment I realised something important:

That perhaps many coaches, counsellors, and therapists don’t yet know what’s truly possible with the Enneagram — or how to use it effectively with clients.

In my training programmes, I work with Enneagram enthusiasts who already understand its depth and have experienced its impact firsthand.

I wrote this book to bring the Enneagram to everyone open to what it can truly bring.

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Curious What’s Inside?

Table of contents (partial).

Download a free sneak preview

349 pages. 16 chapters. 9 types.

Everything you need to work deeply and effectively with every client.

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"BUY THIS BOOK. This book holds such practical wisdom that will resource you in serving your clients. This book was clearly written by someone who has studied the Enneagram at a deep level and who has a compassionate awareness of how to work with the habitual patterns of each type skillfully."

— J Arm, Amazon US, June 2024

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Why Leading Enneagram Teachers Recommend

Coaching & Counsellingto the Point

Excerpt from a 2024 interview — used with permission.

“It’s such a terrific book for people who are practicing. Anybody can read it and get value — but for those of us applying the Enneagram in our work as coaches, counsellors, spiritual directors, or managers, Jeanette has given us a true resource for working with each of the nine types at a deeper level. It’s unique comprehensive, and unlike anything else.”

— Peter O’Hanrahan,

International Enneagram Teacher

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What You’ll Master

Turn Enneagram theory into transformative practice.

Whether you’re a seasoned professional or simply passionate about personal growth, this book helps you bring Enneagram insight into real life.

Understand the Mechanisms behind each type.

Identify exactly what stalls and accelerates growth for each pattern—and why.

Follow a clear process through ten phases.

Guide clients through a proven, ten-phase transformational journey, the EnneaFlow.

Use a ready-to-go toolkit of type-specific practices.

Access pattern-specific exercises ready to use in your next session.

By the end of this book, you'll be able to:

✓ Recognise the core patterns driving each client's behaviour
✓ Design sessions that target each person's specific growth edge
✓ Use the EnneaFlow® process to structure transformation journeys
✓ Select the right exercises and interventions for each pattern
✓ Work with confidence and precision — to the Point, every time

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Read What Others Say

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"Essential reading for those working one to one. This is an excellent addition to the literature about the enneagram, combining the psychology and the spiritual and exploring at depth the opportunity for transformational change. A must for all those working one to one with clients—including Spiritual Directors."

— Gilly Flower, UK, 2021

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"A Must-Have for Enneagram Practitioners. I am a certified and accredited Enneagram Professional Teacher and Coach who has been using the Enneagram since 2008. I am thoroughly enjoying this approach to coaching and counselling with the Enneagram, highly recommend to any practitioner."

— Kerry O'Donnell, USA, 2023

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"I am thoroughly enjoying this approach to coaching and counselling with the Enneagram, highly recommend to any practitioner."

— Samantha mackay, Australia, 2023

Meet the Author

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Hi,

I'm Jeanette. More then 25 years ago, I made a choice that shaped everything: to train directly with Helen Palmer and David Daniels — and to dedicate my work to helping others apply the Enneagram in practice, not just in theory.

As founder of Enneagram Europe (accredited by the IEA), I've trained countless coaches, counsellors, and therapists to work deeply and effectively with every type of client.

But here's what I've learned: The Enneagram's power isn't in knowing the nine types.

It's in knowing what actually works with each pattern— precisely, practically, to the Point. That's what this book brings you.

Jeanette

'Because every person matters.”

Ready to Work to the Point too?

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~ Jeanette van Stijn

Order Coaching & Counselling to the Point today and bring clarity, depth, and precision to every session.

  • 352 pages of practical wisdom

  • 9 type-specific client chapters with ready-to-use tools

  • The EnneaFlow® Transformative Process Model

  • Exercises for head, heart, and body integration

  • Your complete professional reference—for life

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Book Details

  • First published as'Typisch Coachen, Typisch Counselen' in Dutch (2013)

  • Publication date: July 2021

  • Publisher: EnneaBooks, Netherlands

  • ISBN: 978-9083010304

  • 352 pages

  • Size: 16.99 x 2.03 x 24.41 cm

  • Weight: 670 grams

  • Available worldwide on Amazon

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